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Real World of Sexuality
The
majority of males in appearances, shape,
exciting emotional or
most cultures are
personality, temperament, sexual responses that
heterosexually or.iented .
preferences in attractions were repeated and
But even heterosexuals
and professions among
cultivated.
allow their minds and
homosexuals as among
God commanded the
sexual feelings to be
heterosexuals. The vast
law of Deuteronomy 22:5
diverted by wrong
majority of homosexuals
to prevent such distorted
attitudes and desires .
of both sexes clearly
emotions: "The woman
Sorne heterosexuals
identify themselves with
shall not wear that which
develop a .degree of
thei r gender, but prefer
pertaineth unto a man,
homosexual interest (a
their own sex sexually.
neither shall a man put
degree of bisexuality).
Other Unfortunate
on a woman's garment;
Heterosexual males with
for all that do so are
effeminate (female)
Condltioning
abomination unto the
mannerisms also exist.
Many unfortunate human
Lord thy God."
Feminine heterosexual
sexual and .emotional
The law of
females again are the
feelings exist-some too Deuteronomy 22:5 also is
majority. But there are
obscene to describe
intended to discourage
also masculine-mannered
(Ephesians 5: 12). All
another human distortion:
females. The latter,
these warn us of the
transsexuality.
however, may still be
great varieties of
Transsexuals (they
heterosexual and
sexual
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emotional
may be male or female)
maternal in interests.
conditioning that can
feel they have the mind
There are many
happen to improperly
and emotions of the
masculine-appearing
controlled minds ano
opposite sex and are
(even super-masculine)
lives .
trapped in the wrong
male homosexuals and,
Transvestites are
physical body. Often such
at the other extreme,
persons who cross-dress feelings have been traced
effeminate (or " swish"
on various occasions.
back to very early
type) male homosexuals .
Research indicates most childhood upbringing that
There are all degrees in
of these persons are
deprecated or ignored
between . The effeminate
males with heterosexual
the child's true sex and
or swish j ype are usually
inclinations. although
caused them to
only a small proportion of some have homosexual
experience or value only
male homosexuals but,
interests.
the feelings and emotioris
because they are more
The majority of
of the opposite sex.
noticeable, are often
transvestite males identify
Effeminate mannerisms
erroneously stereotyped
themselves as males but in males. may be due to
to represent the whole.
have learned to get an
rearing in a totally, or
Female homosexuals
erotic or emotional kick
nearly exclusive female
(lesbians) are often
out of wearing items of
environment. Maybe a
typically feminine in
clothing of the oppo'site
male wasn 't allowed or
outward appearance and
sex, or in passing as a
encouraged to identify
manner.
Oth~rs
are very
member of the opposite
with a male and male
mannish ( " butch" or
sex. Sorne can function
outlook and thinking. The
"dyke"). There are all ·
. sexually only after doing
person picked up certain
degrees between these
so.
female ways of acting or
appearances and
This distorted
feeling about things.
mannerisms. In modern
emotional condition can
Effeminate mannerisms
cultures , no_t all
often be traced back to
may also be a way of
homosexuals are readily
early repeated
portraying
discernible from
cross-dressing by
nonaggressiveness or
heterosexuals by outward parents, siblings or by the reveal that the male does
appearances.
person himself at sorne
not want to be treated or
There are as many
time. Such dressing
threatened as an ordinary
variances in
began to produce
male may be. Many of
September, 1981
these males stil l have
heterosexual interests.
Effeminacy is harmful
because it damages a
male 's proper leadership
and thinking in a family
unit.
The learning and
conditioning of human
sexual interests and
emotional fee lings is
strong. So strong, in fact ,
that persons misassigned
the wrong sex at birth for
some sex organ
abnormality, and then
raised as a person of
that assigned sex, readi ly
develop the expectec;J
heterosexual interests for
that sex even though
their true genetics and
hormone levels are of the
opposite sex. These rare
occurrences are
sometimes not
discovered unti l puberty
changes force the true
sex to appear.
The book.
Sexuality
and Homosexuality-A
New View,
by Arno
Karlen, W:W. Norton &
Company, lnc. ,
New York, contains
other backgrounds and
causes of damaging
sexuality.
Sexuali ty Not Prlvate
Human sexuality is more
than one's gender or a
sexual act. lt is not just a
prívate matter as so
many want others to
believe. Human sexuality
is a total way of thinking ,
acting and feeling.
One's sexuality affects
the way one responds
to
his own and the opposite
sex,
to
marriage ,
to
the
family experience and to
every aspect of lite.
That 's why sex has so
múch impact on human
lives and culture. lt's the
reason why the Creator
commands men and
women to develop it
rightly.
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